Have you ever thought why sometimes in life dealing with people is such a struggle. Sometimes you will come to the point asking yourself if the problem is you, not the other way around.
Nowadays, this is the main reason why people doesn’t connect easily. They would rather jump into conclusion than scrutinize the personality and behaviour of the person. We tend to forget that each one of us has a unique identity, the only problem is we never give the chance to know the person well.
In order to prevent misunderstandings, you need to stop and reflect what kind of person you are dealing with. I am saying this because I myself wasn’t good at giving an ample time to read someone’s disposition. If you show me goodness in our first meeting, you have already won my heart and I will label you as a good person, however if you disappoint me then I have the impression that you can’t be a good friend. I had difficulty of adapting myself not to judge too quickly until recently, I guess my consciousness has finally woken up to reality.
I remembered back in the days, during my Psychology subject that learning all different personality types was only like giving a brand or generic name of each traits. The funny thing is that all I thought, I would only see those traits inside the Mental Hospital however, it is so ironic that each one of us are categorized of which class do we belong.
Ambiverts are very flexible and fun to be with. They enjoy being around with people, however they become drained after a certain time, hence they needed a quiet time but not for too long. They recuperate themselves through social interaction and alone time. They become confused if you go beyond the limits of privacy that he/she wanted only to exposed. Ambiverts has a weird personality wherein you are enjoying their company but then there will be a day that ambiverts wouldn’t even want to see and talk to you. It doesn’t mean you’ve done wrong, they just need to be distant to have time to self contain. They are inclined to introvertion and these two can build a good relationship. The good thing about ambiverts, they are too naive, trusting people easily is their weakness without knowing that they have already opened up themselves, they are also loving and caring but once you break their trust, they can easily disappear in your life quietly in comparison to extroverts who can be loud and aggressive to voice out their feelings. If you have a friend or a lover who are ambiverts, then consider yourself a lucky one because you don’t have to take too much effort to understand them. It is a foreseeable relationship that leads to a greater success.
Conflicts happen when two traits clashed without knowing what went wrong. Like for instance, you didn’t received a call from your boyfriend/girlfriend after spending a lovely day. You might not be aware that you are in a relationship with a person who are introverts, which you have to respect their privacy and do not interrupt them if you have not heard from him/her. Remember that Introverts main comfort zone is their alone time. Therefore you need to give them time to think and don’t demand instant answers. Their brain stimuli is mainly associated with processing thoughts, planning and solving problems. They are very unpredictable but you have to give yourself enough time to know them well before jumping into conclusion. Introverts are very observer, infact their personality are more interesting although sometimes ambiverts find them boring but give it a little time and you would be in the same world again.
Whilst Ambiverts and Introverts are close with each other, meeting Extroverts can be too much for ambiverts. Both traits are good at parties, social gatherings and group activities but ambiverts wouldn’t cope up of the level of energy and spontaneity of extroverts. Then ambiverts would go back to its introversion mode to balance itself.
As an ambivert, entering into our life isn’t hard, infact we are the real deal. You have both best of the world. There is never a dull moment and the feel of happiness and positive in life attracts other people. It is our nature that comes within us, that makes others wants to know us better. So if you have us in your life, learn to treasure the bond we give because not everyone can caught our attention, and if we does you have already occupied a space in our heart.
I would love to know which personality type do you belong. Leave a comment below and share your experience.